"We’ll live in drama but we’ll die in a comedy" ([info]perplexio) wrote,
@ 2004-11-05 13:41:00
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Current mood: annoyed
Current music:Kevin Gilbert - Water Under the Bridge

An Open letter to my fellow Americans
"Clowns to the left
Jokers to the right
and here I am
stuck in the middle with you"
-Stuck In the Middle by Gerry Rafferty

My Fellow Americans,

We used to be able to discuss and argue politics rationally, to have intelligent and civil political discourse. The discussion sometimes would get heated, but there was a certain level of mutual respect that we would extend to one another.

In actually discussing and arguing politics we were communicating our ideas back and forth. Maybe we'd never agree and the best we could hope for was an agreement to disagree... but that's still better than what we have now. In communicating our political beliefs through debate and discussion we learned not only what one another believed but also why we believed what we believe and to an extent the train of thought or logic that led us to our differing political beliefs.

We don't have that any more. There's a lack of communication and with it has developed a lack of understanding and even more obvious is the lack of respect and civility shown to those with ideas other than our own.

It has been said by Democrats that Republicans often exhibit an air of "moral superiority" and it has been said by Republicans that Democrats often exhibit an air of "intellectual superiority." That is to say that Republicans are often seen as showing a certain level of contempt for those who don't share their moral beliefs and Democrats are often seen as exhibiting a certain air of condescension for those who don't share their beliefs. The rhetoric has grown heavier and more negative over the past few years and reached a Fever Pitch by election day.

I was hoping that after the election, regardless of the results, that this trend of division and lack of communication would start reversing. But I don't believe it has-- at least not significantly enough to notice. I still see the same vitrolic comments being shot like missles of hate back and forth-- the pen may have been mightier than the sword, but the keyboard is mightier yet-- because now we have computer monitors to hide behind. The opposition is faceless so we tend to show less consideration for them than before.

To my republican friends--those tree-hugging, birkenstock-wearing, looney, commie-pig leftists have feelings too. They're people, they have ideas and beliefs just like you do, for the most part they aren't morally corrupt, they give to charity and help strangers just like you do. To my liberal friends-- those ass-backwards, redneck, SUV driving, Rush Limbaugh-listening, Christian zealots have feelings and ideas of their own-- just because their ideas and beliefs are different than yours doesn't make those ideas (or by extension the people who have those ideas) stupid.

And to all of you-- We're all Americans, instead of making assumptions or broad-sweeping generalizations based on words like "liberal," "democrat," "conservative," and "republican", instead of assuming you know what people whose beliefs are different than yours are inferior either morally or intellectually, instead of assuming you understand them and they understand you:

Shut up and listen to one another already!



Instead of asking "What do you believe?" ask "Why do you believe, what you believe?," or "what events or thought process led you to the beliefs you had." Knowing what one another believes is only scratching the surface-- it doesn't help us understand one another. Knowing WHY we believe the way we believe, the core and foundation of one another's beliefs-- that will lead us to an understanding of one another. We all have a right to the beliefs and opinions we have. "Opinions" aren't "true" or "false" as they're completely subjective, and maybe if we're all willing to concede that and "agree to disagree" on certain issues and find common ground on others we can finally cease to be "us" and "them"-- isn't it about time to remind ourselves that regardless of our differeing opinions we're all still Americans?

Respectfully yours,
Perplexio



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[info]heirtoruin
2004-11-05 02:24 pm UTC (link)
I'd have to agree with that. However, there is a presence in this country that continues to perpetuate the divisiion. It's the media, quite notably, the 4th branch of the government.

Did you watch Jon Stewart on Crossfire?

He laid it out straight to those guys..."You are hurting America." Instead of questioning both sides and holding our officials accountable, the media has become a haven that bolsters their propaganda. Anyone that watches Crossfire sees "right" vs. "left" and constant bickering about who is right. The media is no longer simply a place to gather the facts. It's all about spin. If we simply had news reporters instead of analysts and partisan representatives, we'd be much better off.

To provide a little more "close to home" evidence of this...I often listen to our local talk radio program, which is hosted by conservative Republican. I agree with a lot of his points and common sense. However, he does tend to get very annoying and consistently insults his callers (not necessarily outright...but usually upon ending the call or something snide he'll say on the air). Anyway, today he was STILL going on about the election results as if this is news to anyone. In his rants, I heard several things. 1. There is no such thing as an honest, intelligent democrat (referring to remarks about a rigged election). 2. Rush Limbaugh knows everything. 3. A local state representative who has just become the area's senior member should treat all the democrat representatives rudely. 4. Bill Clinton was a liar (yes..this was today). 5.It is very important that Georgia has banned gay marriage.

We don't have a liberal talk radio show, and I don't listen to national shows. I have listened to Rush in the past, but since his whole oxycontin problem, I don't want to give that man the time of day since he said all drug users should be imprisoned. Hypocrites, IMO, have no valid argument against anything no matter what side.

But returning to the former...If partisan politics is an issue, the Republicans "won" so why are we still going on about it. Nothing changes. It only seems to me that this is the only way to get people to listen to his program...put downs, insults, and more of the same. I don't know if other local talk radio programs are anything like this, but this is not the way bring the country together. Our media personnel use their positions to boast personal politics rather than be informative about the local state of affairs. Instead, this guy puts his partisan spin on everything...siding with his party on every issue while simultaneously arguing an angle to make the other side seem totally incompetent. Ok...enough...

My point is...even when individuals try to establish a semblance of communication, our output is inconsistent with the input (tv, radio, news publications, etc).

When you say that Repubs are generally considered "morally superior" while Dems are considered "intellectually superior" by the opposing sides....why is that a good number of democrats are actually uneducated low-lives while a very good number of republicans are redneck, bigotted trailer trash? Living in the South, I get to see it all!!! It's often fun...but I sometimes wish to get away from it, which may happen when I get that PhD.

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[info]perplexio
2004-11-05 02:31 pm UTC (link)
Another example of the "4th branch" of government perpetuating the division-- today in the NY Times Op/Ed section were columns titled:

"Why We Lost"
and
"Why They Won"

This is just another example of perpetuationg the "us vs. them" mentality and fostering division over unity.

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[info]heirtoruin
2004-11-05 07:17 pm UTC (link)
Why are you reading the New York Times??

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[info]perplexio
2004-11-05 07:26 pm UTC (link)
It's always good to be well informed. I also read selected articles of the following newspapers from time to time:

The Age (Sydney)
The Times (London)
Detroit News
Detroit Free Press
Chicago Tribune
Cleveland Plain Dealer

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[info]heirtoruin
2004-11-05 08:36 pm UTC (link)
http://www.augustachronicle.com

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[info]heirtoruin
2004-11-05 08:38 pm UTC (link)
You'll notice that our local paper has a "religion" section every week. Does your paper do that?

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[info]rugbypesce
2004-11-05 04:46 pm UTC (link)
I agree with you, man. Hence my own post. I hope it didn't sound too angry--just, all the friends on my Friends' List were going nuts, and it was really getting me upset. And now, for merely speaking up and telling my friends that I was disappointed in their behavior, a good handful of them aren't speaking to me. I have been called "pretentious" and "venemous." That hurts.

No one is going to get anywhere if there is only pissing and moaning, and no communication. Optimism, folks. Optimism. Be willing to open your minds to people with ideas other than yours.

:)

Nights.

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[info]vibrantcolor
2004-11-06 02:23 pm UTC (link)
I hear what you're saying. I think that a lot of people just think that Bush is dead-wrong on really really important issues such as the future of this country which we will be leaving to our children and whether innocent people (including our own troops) live or die. I've felt that it's a life-and-death situation, who is in the white house for a while now. I also take the issue of a woman's right to choose very personally. I do not want some guy in Washington, who for all intents and purposes is a religious wacko, making any decisions with respect to what I can and cannot do with my body. Again, I here what you're saying, but I think sometimes things are so personal and so important to people that they become extremely intollerant of other people's opinions who disagree with them, myself included much of the time. Some things are just wrong, and I don't feel the need to have polite discussions about it. This is an extreme example, but I believe it is sort of akin to having a polite discussion about whether what the Nazis were doing in Germany was right or wrong. Some things are just wrong. That is how I feel about several things that the Bush administration is about; that several of the things they do are wrong and in fact very wrong. However, I know that you didn't even vote Republican this time. I'm just trying to explain why I think that so many people, especially those with left leanings, have become so seemingly irrational. I think they are just really concerned for their fellow Americans and for the world.

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[info]last_plane_out
2004-11-09 03:33 pm UTC (link)
I thank you for offering rationale. I respect that. And you can hear the "BUT" coming...

We've been told by actions and now news releases that the new/old administration is going to push ahead with what amounts to a far-right agenda. "Our" side, (being a progressive) has been given the middle finger and we're now off the radar. There will be no listening. This appears to be an attempt to irrevocably swing the federal government towards a neo-con nirvana for the remainder of my lifetime. The balance and fairness is gone.

Thus the dejection. Our protests for four years were unheeded. They're really going to be unheeded now. An agenda of sweeping reforms and constitutional rollbacks is being plotted daily to be unveiled in January.

This is not a minor set-back which can be redressed in four years. These are permanent changes to the system of government and they are going through now. There will be no listening to each other. They're talking, we're listening and do you really believe it's going to go any other way?

Time will tell if I am Chicken Little, but there's no one in the Senate with enough fortitude to stop it, so ...

Now I have Kevin Gilbert in my head...

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[info]perplexio
2004-11-09 03:54 pm UTC (link)
I'm hoping that in 2008 the Republicans choose Giuliani to run. He's much more liberal and middle of the road than Bush could ever dream of being and would steer the Republican party back in the CORRECT (as opposed to "right") direction.

My fiancee had never heard of Gilbert before she and I started dating. She's decidedly more liberal than myself and loves the song "Goodness Gracious." She also loves his cover of Led Zeppelin's "Kashmir" (as do I, I prefer it to the original actually).

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